Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I
want when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics to
deal with!"
"At
last, the government will
be paying me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some of
the positive things about
retirement that almost everyone
looks forward to. Unless it's
due to illness, the reason
most retirees leave their
jobs is because they want
to, not because they're pushed
out. So for most, that last
day on the job is a joyful
one filled with an invigorating
sense of personal freedom.
But
many retirees are not prepared
for another feeling that often
follows that last day of work:
a profound sense of loss.
You've
Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic
Ventures, Temple University,
and the Center for Intergenerational
Learning surveyed retired
people of all economic levels,
and found that the majority
had one thing in common: They
felt lonely. It wasn't for
lack of friends, family and
active social lives. Instead,
it was a loneliness for the
kinds of relationships they
had established during their
working years. Almost all
workers are part of teams
of some kind, and those teams
have daily problems to solve,
solutions to work out, new
ideas to introduce.
An
architect who spent her life
drawing plans had an office
full of people who understood
her work and appreciated her
creative new ideas. A science
teacher of many years had
near-celebrity status among
his peers and his students,
who always seemed to be talking
about the cool things they
were learning in his class.
The manager of quality-control
at an auto-assembly plant
felt pride in his team and
got a special thrill each
fall when the new models came
out and he saw them on the
road.
At
retirement, they may all have
one thing in common: loss
of a sense of purpose. The
architect's purpose was to
create satisfying designs,
the teacher's to stimulate
young minds, the quality-control
manager's to assure that his
company's products measured
up to top standards. What
will replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part of
their identities?
These
days, with rumblings that
social security might not
last and with health care
costs escalating alarmingly,
many retirees find that instead
of feeling the total freedom
they dreamed about, they are
haunted by worries about whether
they have enough money saved
to actually enjoy their retired
years. The fact that people
are living so much longer
than they did a decade ago
should seem like good news-but
the prospect of how to finance
all those extra years is troublesome
to many people when they leave
the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement can
be an unsettling time. But
it doesn't have to be.
Many
people have a different view
of retirement. One respondent
in the study mentioned above
said: "I like to
think of myself as retiring
TO something as opposed to
retiring FROM something."
In
other words, retirement
shouldn't be a stopping point,
but a continuation of the
journey through life.
Why toss all the experience
you've gained through years
of working? You're one of
the "wise ones"
now. There are people out
there who value you.
A
2005 comprehensive study released
by AARP and Towers Perrin,
a human resources consulting
firm, showed that many employers
are beginning to recognize
the value of older workers.
It's that old-fashioned work
ethic-you know, expecting
to actually show up on time
and give a fair day's work
for a fair day's wage. In
its September, 2006, Bulletin,
AARP honored 50 US employers
who are "friendly"
to older workers.
But
doesn't going back to work
defeat the whole idea of being
retired? Isn't it supposed
to be time to stop showing
up for work when someone else
says you should? You wanted
freedom, remember? Do you
have to give that up to regain
that sense of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are
making money in home businesses
that allow them to be their
own bosses and retain
the exhilaration of the freedom
to run their own lives. At
the same time, they're able
to generate extra income to
bulk up the nest egg and provide
substantially more financial
security for the 20, 30 or
more years to come. Freedom
from financial worry is just
as important as freedom from
job demands if you're going
to enjoy the rest of your
life. And as a home-based
entrepreneur, you can still
enjoy all the dreams you planned.
As long as you have a computer
and a phone, you can run your
"home" business
from anywhere you call home-including
your vacation cottage, RV,
or even your favorite beach.
If
you're retired, or soon will
be, now is the time to get
started. You already have
the skills you need. With
a little extra help from the
experts, you can fine-tune
them and start right away
to put a sense of purpose
back in your life.
Just
fill out the form below for
additional information on
a home based business that
you can operate that will
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